Recently a friend of mine got pretty upset with the comment that being made from so called friends who around her.
I wonder whether there is any bottom line for jokes that we always made. Using friend’s weakness as a topic to joke around it’s not sensitive at all. Put yourself in the shoes of the one who being joke around by everybody, how would you feel about it? Don’t you feel upset? Don’t you start questioning is it you are really that bad? You try to ignore the joke but people around you keep on bringing it up. You will start wondering whether it is the truth that how’s everybody look at you. Confidence, questions, doubts, negative elements will definitely haunt you down. Laugh at a joke will make you happy for a moment, but laughing at other’s weakness will affect the emotion of hers.
I believe true friend don’t do that to their friends. And I believe in karma too. There is always a bottom line for everything. If the joke do hurt others feeling and it’s not joke anymore. Think twice before you actually made those comments to others. Be sensitive and considerate.
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舒芙礼
12 years ago
2 comments:
Yeah, i totally agree with you that everything must have a bottom line when come to joke, perhaps i'm just too sensitive and serious to take those "serious jokes". :-)
Don't said that you are sensitive. When people jokes and u feel hurt about it that definately not a joke.
Some people can be very mean...without considering others feeling..
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